Bible: 2 Samuel 3

3:1 However, the war was prolonged between the house of Saul and the house of David. David was becoming steadily stronger, while the house of Saul was becoming increasingly weaker.

3:2 Now sons were born to David in Hebron. His firstborn was Amnon, born to Ahinoam the Jezreelite. 3:3 His second son 1  was Kileab, born to Abigail the widow 2  of Nabal the Carmelite. His third son was Absalom, the son of Maacah daughter of King Talmai of Geshur. 3:4 His fourth son was Adonijah, the son of Haggith. His fifth son was Shephatiah, the son of Abitail. 3:5 His sixth son was Ithream, born to David’s wife Eglah. These sons 3  were all born to David in Hebron.

Abner Defects to David’s Camp

3:6 As the war continued between the house of Saul and the house of David, Abner was becoming more influential 4  in the house of Saul. 3:7 Now Saul had a concubine named Rizpah daughter of Aiah. Ish-bosheth 5  said to Abner, “Why did you have sexual relations with 6  my father’s concubine? 7 

3:8 These words of Ish-bosheth really angered Abner and he said, “Am I the head of a dog that belongs to Judah? This very day I am demonstrating 8  loyalty to the house of Saul your father and to his relatives 9  and his friends! I have not betrayed you into the hand of David. Yet you have accused me of sinning with this woman today! 10  3:9 God will severely judge Abner 11  if I do not do for David exactly what the Lord has promised him, 12  3:10 namely, to transfer the kingdom from the house of Saul and to establish the throne of David over Israel and over Judah all the way from Dan to Beer Sheba! 3:11 Ish-bosheth 13  was unable to answer Abner with even a single word because he was afraid of him.

3:12 Then Abner sent messengers 14  to David saying, “To whom does the land belong? Make an agreement 15  with me, and I will do whatever I can 16  to cause all Israel to turn to you.” 3:13 So David said, “Good! I will make an agreement with you. I ask only one thing from you. You will not see my face unless you bring Saul’s daughter Michal when you come to visit me.” 17 

3:14 David sent messengers to Ish-bosheth son of Saul with this demand: 18  “Give me my wife Michal whom I acquired 19  for a hundred Philistine foreskins.” 3:15 So Ish-bosheth took her 20  from her husband Paltiel 21  son of Laish. 3:16 Her husband went along behind her, weeping all the way to Bahurim. Finally Abner said to him, “Go back!” 22  So he returned home.

3:17 Abner advised 23  the elders of Israel, “Previously you were wanting David to be your king. 24  3:18 Act now! For the Lord has said to David, ‘By the hand of my servant David I will save 25  my people Israel from 26  the Philistines and from all their enemies.’

3:19 Then Abner spoke privately 27  with the Benjaminites. Abner also went to Hebron to inform David privately 28  of all that Israel and the entire house of Benjamin had agreed to. 29  3:20 When Abner, accompanied by twenty men, came to David in Hebron, David prepared a banquet for Abner and the men who were with him. 3:21 Abner said to David, “Let me leave so that I may go and gather all Israel to my lord the king so that they may make an agreement 30  with you. Then you will rule over all that you desire.” So David sent Abner away, and he left in peace.

Abner Is Killed

3:22 Now David’s soldiers 31  and Joab were coming back from a raid, bringing a great deal of plunder with them. Abner was no longer with David in Hebron, for David 32  had sent him away and he had left in peace. 3:23 When Joab and all the army that was with him arrived, Joab was told: “Abner the son of Ner came to the king; he sent him away, and he left in peace!

3:24 So Joab went to the king and said, “What have you done? Abner 33  has come to you! Why would you send him away? Now he’s gone on his way! 34  3:25 You know Abner the son of Ner! Surely he came here to spy on you and to determine when you leave and when you return 35  and to discover everything that you are doing!

3:26 Then Joab left David and sent messengers after Abner. They brought him back from the well of Sirah. (But David was not aware of it.) 3:27 When Abner returned to Hebron, Joab took him aside at the gate as if to speak privately with him. Joab then stabbed him 36  in the abdomen and killed him, avenging the shed blood of his brother Asahel. 37 

3:28 When David later heard about this, he said, “I and my kingdom are forever innocent before the Lord of the shed blood of Abner son of Ner! 3:29 May his blood whirl over 38  the head of Joab and the entire house of his father! 39  May the males of Joab’s house 40  never cease to have 41  someone with a running sore or a skin disease or one who works at the spindle 42  or one who falls by the sword or one who lacks food!

3:30 So Joab and his brother Abishai killed Abner, because he had killed their brother Asahel in Gibeon during the battle.

3:31 David instructed Joab and all the people who were with him, “Tear your clothes! Put on sackcloth! Lament before Abner!” Now King David followed 43  behind the funeral bier. 3:32 So they buried Abner in Hebron. The king cried loudly 44  over Abner’s grave and all the people wept too. 3:33 The king chanted the following lament for Abner:

“Should Abner have died like a fool?

3:34 Your hands 45  were not bound,

and your feet were not put into irons.

You fell the way one falls before criminals.”

All the people 46  wept over him again. 3:35 Then all the people came and encouraged David to eat food while it was still day. But David took an oath saying, “God will punish me severely 47  if I taste bread or anything whatsoever before the sun sets!

3:36 All the people noticed this and it pleased them. 48  In fact, everything the king did pleased all the people. 3:37 All the people and all Israel realized on that day that the killing of Abner son of Ner was not done at the king’s instigation. 49 

3:38 Then the king said to his servants, “Do you not realize that a great leader 50  has fallen this day in Israel? 3:39 Today I am weak, even though I am anointed as king. These men, the sons of Zeruiah, are too much for me to bear! 51  May the Lord punish appropriately the one who has done this evil thing! 52 

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